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Trapped!

I’m old enough to remember the Colonel Abrahams 1 hit wonder song “like a fool I’m in  cage I can’t get out, you see I’m trapped” are you humming it? ;-). So we are often Trapped by patterns of behaviour:

 Answers don’t empower, knowing better does not mean doing better. We do things in full knowledge that it’s not good for us, e.g. fight,  smoke, drink, blame, complain, circulate negativity even though we’ve read 7234 self-help books and attended everything from Mind Power to achieving a PhD in Healthy Human Behavioural Determinists that support a Wonderful life. You may have written a book on consciousness and call yourself an expert. It’s all in the domain of content and yes some experiential learning yet the questions begs – Are you fully realised? Self Actualised? Impacting life at your optimum? I’m definitely not and I’m humble enough to really get the Zen perspective “only an  empty hand can receive”.

 The second we say we don’t need something then we do. I don’t need to go on a course like Master 1 or any other awareness process because ( “”now the stories seek their expression””).  Only when we empty ourselves does the REAL possibility of growth occur, only when we can see that a commitment to continual learning & development is in place then we stay present, innocent like children open to newer and even better & greater possibilities.

 The spiritual ego is as much an ego as a money hungry one especially when it comes from superiority or I know more. I am but a baby novice and if I did an awareness course 1000 times I’d still learn. I am happy to go on any training or process (and do) no matter how much I perceive I know; as I also know that it’s already past history and if I commit to staying open like a 24/7 shop I can receive. The minute I close, I cannot. The reason we are trapped is when we listen to the ego whispering that we know more, we don’t need anything. We are also trapped by patterns that are blind to us, conditioning & programming that gets us to repeat things over and over again.

 For me it is important to be up for seeing these patterns and choosing whether they serve me yes or no. In my experience Master 1 provides a context within that one can truly see many of these patterns. I also say there are many other great courses too, however to be straight I am a fan of Master 1 by comparison so do have a level of bias, hey least I get that!

So I extend an invitation to not be as trapped by stories, conditioning, reason, intellect, survival & security, excuses, justifications, intellectualism, comparison, spiritual narcissism, self-righteousness and a few more and see the space that occurs Beyond Thought into the light of authenticity. Listen I’m guilty of everything I’ve said and listed, yet I touch that place every now and then when aliveness & being are one and the more committed I am  the more it happens.

David R Hawkins in his book Power vs. Force says “Apparently, even though one undergoes untold millions of individual experiences in one’s life, only a few lessons (shifts) are usually ever learned. The attainment of wisdom is slow and painful, and few are willing to relinquish familiar views; resistance to change and growth is considerable. It would seem that most people would rather die than alter those belief systems  that confine them to a lower levels of consciousness”.

Wherever we are on our consciousness development journey when we become willing students and embrace the seeing of a pattern and decide
to shift to something new & fresh we liberate ourselves, we become lighter, sharper, more present, charismatic and an attractor of positive things David R.Hawkins talks about this true perspective in great detail in  the book I’ve already mentioned. The simple awareness that the context alone of consciousness development, awareness creation is bigger than the course, its facilitator’s; the power is inherent in that we would choose to step into the context. That context lifts, that context delivers, that context is an act of love of Self and others. Power yourself up in consciousness, see you there.

Upcoming Personal Leadership Brand Workshop

1 June 2011

Are you in a visible role – either as a leader within your organisation, a business owner or with clients and the broader market?  If so, your personal leadership brand is what creates your reputation and either oils the wheels – or can stand in your way.

Join me and the most extraordinary like-minded people on the 1 June 2011 in Sandton, Johannesburg for a one-day workshop where you will learn how to create and develop your brand to create a powerful impact in business.

“Best workshop of this nature that I have attended – awesome!”  Tracy Allen

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Creating the future of business

Creating the future of business does not only focus on profitability anymore, but also on developing a new generation of leaders whose objectives include human development. We can simply not do business anymore without including the triple ‘P’ – people, planet and profit. By using Daniel Goleman’s model on Emotional Quotient, smartRevolution designed a workshop aimed at leadership to develop their listening skills and to use a different approach when interacting with sub-ordinates.  We added in the basic principles of consciousness and focus on awareness and transformation rather than supply companies with a recipe to use like a shopping list.  This proves to be the winning combination to solve the issues that could potentially move a great business model to an award-winning organisation.  This 2 day workshop is called Conscious Self-Management for leaders.  To get more information on this workshop you can contact Karin de Jager at karin@smartrevolution.org.  Following this new approach, companies embark more than ever before on a journey of intervention and coaching to equip the leaders in their organisations with the necessary skill to accomplish this.  The benefits they bring to their organisations and to society are immeasurable. 

 

Family constellations with Matheo Galatis

What an impactful day with Matheo Galatis who led the team at smartRevolution through a family constellation workshop (wiki definition below.).  It was incredible for all of us – and for some, the physical manifestation was awesome!  Still laughing :-)  P.S. Guess who?

Wiki Definition

Family Constellations (a subset application of Systemic Constellations) is an experiential process that aims to release and resolve profound tensions within and between people. The development of the process can be traced through a lineage of philosophers and therapists including Edmund Husserl the father of phenomenology, Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy the pioneer of transgenerational systemic thinking, Virginia Satir who developed family sculpture the precursor of Systemic Constellations and Bert Hellinger.

In the past decade, further advancements in the use of the process have been innovated by practitioners throughout the world. These include psychiatrists (Gunthard Weber and Albrecht Mahr, Germany; Chris Walsh, Australia), psychologists (Hunter Beaumont, Germany; Marta Thorsheim, Norway, Edward Lynch and Dan Booth Cohen, USA; Judith Hemming, UK), as well as many alternative care providers.

The term Family Constellations was first used by Alfred Adler in a somewhat different context to refer to the phenomenon that each individual belongs to and is bonded in relationship to other members of his or her family system.

For more info contact Matheo.

Urge to emerge, ignite and act: thePoint from my perspective

Do you have choice? Are you able to align your will, your thought, your word, your deed with your choice?  And what is your “choice” based on?  Look closely: if your choices are based on “wanting to do or not wanting  to do”, “wanting to be or not wanting to not be”, it’s a limiting place to live from.  And if the message isn’t clear look at Hamlet – he was so tormented by his inability to be with the limited choices open to him “to be or not to be”, that he killed himself.  What a waste of human potentiality – and maybe the world was better off without him!

If those are the only kinds of choices you have you are in service of your past and living in the domain of ego.  What opens up from your past is simply the perceived choice to “do or not do”, “be or not be”, “choose or not choose” from want, need or desire based on ego perceptions.  Sometimes that is sufficient, and more and more, it’s a prison with no true original creation taking place.

Now let’s look at will: will is based on the ability to follow-through on your vision.  It’s an igniting force; a great source for creation and destruction.  Who’s will are you in action of?

Authentic action opens up when you have access to authentic choice – natural intelligence which is connected to and aligned with the infinite natural intelligence of all of Life, and choose to apply your will – that igniting force – in service of that choice.  Here you have access to more than your past – that which the mind already knows.  Authentic action lies in the domain of the unknown; it is the ability to tap into that option which never existed before and choose to do or not do in service of that option.  It lies in the domain of the “impossible” – that which the mind cannot know, because it has never been done before.

Living from this place means you are living with passion and urgency, serving something far greater than the next orgasm, the next house, or the next passport to success.  There is an urgency when you live in this place to express all of the unique expression of the 75 to 100 trillion cells that you are: a once in a forever expression!

The awe of it!  And every day you get up ignited to take that next breath, connect to that person next to you – another once in a forever expression!  When you live here every person holds a secret for you that you can’t wait to decipher.  Life is a party, a game, a puzzle – all of it!! You relish the “good times” and you equally relish the “bad times”.  Life flows for you.  Things seem to align themselves to serve you – to serve your vision, and not just sometimes, because you are in service of Life.

An awesome place to awaken, emerge and act from each moment, each day, where every breath is living, loving and dying fully…and being re-born in the next.  There is  a newness about each moment and there is no mistaking the urgency – like two lovers that are madly in love – except that you are the lover and the moment is the beloved.

So – are you living here?  If  you’re not, then you’re stuck in the past and creating from “not having authentic choice”.  And if that’s the case I won’t mince my words: you are a burden to society, a burden to this planet, and a burden to Life.  You slow down the very expression of Life – the reason you are here.

No need to get “deep and metaphysical” – it really is that simple.  Like a layer of dead skin that has served it’s purpose – which you have in that you have been born into potentiality.  And then, if you are not becoming and living your potentiality every moment of every day, you are stopping the flow of Life expressing itself through you…and you know what happens to dead skin when the pedicurist gets his hands on your feet!!!

Yes, it’s not your fault, you were born into a world, a society, a family that “conditioned” you to be dead. And the fact of it is: you’re still a burden, waiting to die, filling your emptiness with all those things which just prolong the inevitable: the moment of death.  There is a term for this in Stephen Norval’s teaching and in evolutionary emergence teachings:  “the inertia of the ego”.

So the bad news is – that inertia is bloody strong and will keep you trapped forever…. Unless somehow you tap into that urge to emerge and make a choice: to “want to be free more than you want anything else”….Stephen’s words.  Then, you are able to muster enough momentum to break through into freedom.

You know exactly what I mean by wanting to be free.  Except that generally you choose to want to be free when it suits you, when you are desperate, when there is no way out, when it all gets too much…and some of you even try to end it (you’re reading this so I assume you didn’t succeed even there!).

Choosing to want to be free sometimes won’t cut it.  You have to choose to want be free more than you want anything else, “at all times, in all places, through all circumstances, without exception”…more of Stephen’s words!  Need some support with that?  Stephen Norval’s unique series of perspectives are set up exactly to do that: to direct and support you in that journey to set yourself free so that you awaken, emerge and act from authentic choice…So that you live in a state of being ignited and igniting others to live their full potentiality, each moment, of each day and the world becomes a blazing place!

Am I urging you to enrol? Absolutely! Will I gain monetarily? For sure!  However – that is the by-product.  The truth is:  I’m urging you to emerge and act authentically because I have every thing to gain and everything to lose in how you “choose” or “not choose” – how you live your life and how you express on.  Your every choice or not choice impacts me – directly.   And if that’s the “isness” of it, I’d like to ensure that you are making decisions from being aligned with authentic choice, word, deed and action.  By doing your choice is altruistic: it serves you and it serves the whole.

The next thePoint Perspective will be held in Johannesburg from 24th – 27th February, 2011, with an investment of R4000. Very inconvenient I know – and can you still choose to want to be free above all else (more than that dress or golf club), just this once? And again, and again, and again…. Until you are that which you seek.

www.truepoint.co.za

Contact: Rupali@truepoint.co.za or smartlab@smartrevolution.org to enroll.

 

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